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My absolute passion is helping people become “unstuck”. Life can be overwhelming sometimes, especially when we are grieving, so we all need some non-judgmental guidance from time to time. No matter what you are going through, life is easier when there is someone who is willing to join you in the struggle.

I first decided to get my Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology (UWO) because I wanted to get more ‘tools in the toolbelt’ so I could more intelligently love people - meaning supporting them with evidence-based practices. I became a trauma-informed Certified Grief Counsellor through AIHCP and a Registered Psychotherapist with a MACP through Yorkville University. Additionally, I have my suicide intervention certification (ASIST) and crisis prevention and intervention training (CPIT) certification.

My approach is warm, steady, and grounded in curiosity. I draw from several therapeutic models including ACT, IFS, Somatic Therapy, and CBT. These tools help us explore your emotions, patterns, and beliefs while strengthening your ability to care for yourself in a compassionate and authentic way.

Let’s do this!

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A Bit About Me Hi there,

I’m Brenda Deaves. As a therapist I specialize in the areas of loss and grief, trauma, self-sabotaging behaviours, and difficult life transitions, along with anxiety and depression.

I work with clients from a person-centered approach, where my main priority is to create a safe environment for the two of us to work from collaboratively, and at a pace that works for you.

My passion for counselling comes from what I have studied and what I have learned, in part through my own direct experiences with loss, addiction, anger and perfectionism. These lived experiences are what help me to show up for my clients authentically and compassionately.

I hold a Bachelor of Arts in Thanatology from the University of Western Ontario, and am a Masters of Arts in Counselling Psychology candidate at Yorkville University. Prior to joining the practice at Authentic Living London I worked previously in long term care, and I continue to facilitate a bereavement support group. These experiences have further developed my deep capacity for compassion, and my ability to be truly present with clients while sharing in their painful feelings. ​

Although the neuroscience geek in me recognizes that change can be very hard, I firmly believe that it is possible for each and every one of us, regardless of our age or our life circumstance. I am here to walk beside you in these difficult times of transition.

I am available at Authentic Living London for both in-person and virtual sessions, and invite you to connect with me for a free 15 minute phone consultation to get started.

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One of the things I love about science, especially neuroscience, is how understanding the way the brain and body work together allows one to show self-compassion about the difficulties one faces. When we combine empathy and safety with evidence-based therapeutic techniques, healing begins.

Along with providing general therapy services, I specialize in mood disorders, personality disorders, and supporting family members of those with mood/personality disorders.

You do not have to shoulder your struggles alone.

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Hello! I am a Registered Social Worker with training in Thanatology, which is the study of death, dying, and grief—something I’ve always been passionate about. My work revolves around helping people navigate grief and mental health challenges, and I feel truly honored to walk alongside them during some of the most vulnerable times in their lives.

Grief isn’t just about losing a loved one; it can come from so many types of loss—like a job, a relationship, or even a dream that didn’t work out. I create a safe space where people can talk openly about what they’re going through. Sometimes we cry, sometimes we laugh as they share memories, and other times we just sit with the emotions. It’s all about helping people feel seen and supported as they work toward healing.

I’ve had the opportunity to work one-on-one with people grieving deaths by suicide, helped post-secondary students manage mental health crises and ran grief support groups. What I love about my work is that it’s so varied. Some days I’m helping a teenager navigate anxiety or depression, and other days I’m sitting with someone who’s lost a loved one, guiding them through their grief. I use different approaches depending on what each person needs—whether it’s solution-focused techniques, narrative therapy, or something else entirely.

For me, grief counseling is more than just a job. I believe grief is a natural part of life, and it doesn’t need to be “fixed.” What people need is a space where they can process their emotions without judgment, and that’s what I try to provide. My goal is to help them honor their memories, find peace, and move forward in a way that feels authentic to them.

At the core of everything I do, I just want people to know they’re not alone, and that there’s hope, even in the hardest moments.

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I am committed to providing compassionate, client-centered care that empowers individuals to navigate life’s challenges with resilience and self-awareness. My approach is rooted in narrative therapy, strength-based therapy, and trauma-informed practice, helping clients reframe their stories and recognize their inherent strengths. I have experience working with young adults and adults facing anxiety, depression, grief, and life transitions. My background in mental health, addictions, and housing support has shaped my understanding of the diverse and complex experiences that influence emotional well-being. I strive to create a safe, inclusive space where clients feel heard, validated, and supported in their journey toward healing and growth. I integrate evidence-based practices while tailoring my approach to each client’s unique needs. Whether you are seeking support for emotional challenges or personal development, I am here to collaborate with you in building a path forward.

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